weighty secrets | Secrets are things we give to others to keep for us.

Weighty Secrets: Dissapointed?

I'm 2 years post op and haven't been to a follow appointment in a year. Why? Because I've gained 8 lbs and I am terrified of dissappointing my surgeon.

Weighty Secrets: Cheaters.

I love my husband very much but this last weekend while I was on a trip without him visiting a friend who I have had a school-like crush on for 4.5 years I cheated on him. I know I should feel guilty, but it felt so good to be wanted by someone and actually desired.

I don't know if I should tell my husband or just let it go. The bad thing is I really want it to happen again. But I love my husband - and I don't want us to break up. I just want both.....

Weighty Secret: He preferred me fat.

I think my boyfriend loved me more physically when i was 100 pounds heavier...I love him so much that it hurts that he pays less attention to me now...

Weighty Secret: Baby you can drive my car.

Can anyone tell me if your sex drive increases after surgery? I believe that mine has diminished because I am so self conscience. Married just two years, my husband is older than me and I don't know if it is him or me? I just hope it is me and it will improve after surgery? Anybody else experience this?

Weighty Secret: Throw up.

I just ate an entire Breakfast Jack. I feel like crap...and wish I could throw it up..